Speech Therapy Group

We have been going to a small speech group once a week for about 9 months (could be longer). I love it! It's Hazel and another little girl. I thought that the group was small at first but the dynamic is perfect. Hazel is very difficult to convince that she should do what we want her to do. It's still often a struggle to get her to sit and focus on one activity for any length of time. She really is a 2 year old. I like that the session encourages interaction between the 2 girls.

DISCLAIMER: I hesitate to give advice on therapy. Every child is different and learns in different ways. I am NOT a SLP (Speech & Language Pathologist). All of this is MY OPINION. I do not claim to be a professional, nor do I know what is best for your children. I know that this works for Hazel and only Hazel. However, I offer this information as a suggestion or an idea that you may want to approach your SLP about. It may work for others, like it works for Hazel. Please seek the advice of a qualified therapist to see if this idea may work for you.

 

3 reasons why I love our small speech group:

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1. Teaches Effective Communication Skills

Teaches turn taking, simple exchanges and eye-contact. In the one-on-one sessions, Hazel's attention span was extremely short and she would lose focus and interest quickly. If it's not her idea, it's not a good idea. Oh...Hazel...sigh. She knows what she likes and she like to be free and not to be told what to do (If only I knew where she got it from?)

Sometimes our only saving grace is that she wants the therapist to see her and notice her so she is always trying to repeat her words or actions to get her attention. When she ignores Hazel and works with the other child, Hazel will be repeating what she is doing/saying.

2. Social Interaction

The 2 girls are often in an exchanges with each other. The are taking turns with the activity the therapist presents. They hold each others hands and sing songs. They take turns doing more physical activities (like going down a slide). Overall, it walks them through a solid model for effective communication. They are learning how to play together.

3. Focus on Individual Needs

Having only the 2 girls works out well. They are both at different levels of speech and they push each other to grow and learn. Hazel does not do well in unstructured, crowded places. For her, 1 other little girl is plenty enough to pay attention to (and that is often a challenge). I find that the Speech Path has enough time to address each child's needs. She can tailor activities to pull on each of the girls strengths. She can spend time working with them one-on-one to encourage better speech practices.

 

Hope this helps someone out there!!! As a teacher I am thrilled with the dynamic of the group. The kids get all the attention they need in such a small group.

As usual, you are welcomed and encouraged to share any of the activities that you do to promote language development with your little ones! Leave a comment!!

 

 

It Not You - It's me...

Ok. Don't be mad. You're gonna be mad. Just hear me out... It's nothing you did, or said. It's me... YOU? You are perfect!

Although I love this space. I love sharing, writing and documenting, researching, reading comments and e-mails from readers...

I need a break.

With the passing of my Nonno and the simple fact that life just doesn't seem to be slowing down, I am really feeling the need to spend time with my girls. Without the social media distraction (except for IG of course). My motivation is definitely taking a hit here.

I might keep posting a few things here and there. Mostly just to continue documenting life for the girls to read one day. I will also be writing and getting new posts ready for the fall. Like a birth story for example. It's written, just needs a little editing and a few images. Not sure why they take me so long to post??? Anyway, trust me I will be quietly working away on a fresh bunch of posts. Just in time for us all to be ready to get a warm cup of coffee and settle in to those few moments we have to spare and catch up on your favourite little gal Hazel and her new side kick.

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I leave you with a little update on our girl Hazel.

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(all her photos look like this now. She runs toward the camera almost every time)

She has been growing and changing so SO much in her second year. Turning more and more into a little girl with an evolving personality. She is certainly enjoying exerting control over the decisions being made. Especially where food is concerned. Except I don't get the memo each day with the menu choices. I think she would literally just live on gold fish crackers, yogurt and tomatoes if I let her.

Yes, I give her gold fish crackers. No they are not gluten free, dairy free, organic, free range and whatever else food is supposed to be now-a-days. But the bonus about them is, she eats them. She doesn't whine, complain, throw them, waste them, and she can come up to me and ask specifically for "crackers."

SOLD!!!! Here ya go.

Look - I know what a healthy, holistic, well rounded diet should look like. And I also know what survival should look like. I'd like to think I am somewhere in between. Sometimes you just have to embrace processed cheese for what it is. A miracle. Hazel will eat anything with processed cheese on it.

Trust me when I say that Hazel will eat a huge variety of food. Fish, risotto, chicken, sausage, sandwiches, eggs (with spinach & kale), pasta, oatmeal, toast, hummus, potatoes and so much more. BUT...only when she is in the mood to eat said foods. If not...

FAHGET ABOUTIT!

I digress...

 

I would have to say that the biggest changes for her these last few months have been with her communication. She has literally become obsessed with Baby Signing Time (sign language DVDs). She comes out in the morning and is signing and saying "Baby - Time." I usually try to indulge her in her requests so she learns the basics of communication - ask and you shall receive. When she asks for anything, she pretty much gets it.

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(signing cry)

Her vocabulary grows by the day, she is always willing to repeat everything and a great deal of what she says is in context. She will look through a picture book and I can hear her saying all the words she knows. Strawberry, ball, boat, grapes, apple, shoes, dog, cat, bear, socks, fish, banana, tomato, flower, orange, balloon, bubbles, etc.

Every day she carefully examines the books in her bin, thoughtfully chooses one, carries it across the room, hands me the book, slowly turns her little body around and lowers her bum onto my lap and we read. It's the best. I really enjoy the moments she is willing to sit still and read a book because a lot of the time lately she just wants to go go go.

 

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(How much do I LOVE this??!!! This here is the reason I am taking a break. This is what is going to heal my soul. I am going to indulge in this)

 

I am so proud of how hard she tries to repeat my words, even though sometimes it sounds NOTHING like what I have said. Her determination and confidence to keep trying is all I could ever ask for. As long as she feels safe to try, I will always be proud. Let's face it. Hazel makes me proud. Everyday. She makes my heart proud.

Hazel also has this ability to make me annoyed, frustrated and wear down all my patience but you don't wanna hear about that now do you? 2 year olds...sigh.

For the next little while we are working on speech and communication, strengthening her hams and quads, and just enjoying the summer. Visiting with friends, swimming in pools, enjoying family dinners and indulging in a few more cottage trips (which I will share here eventually).

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If you are really desperate for a Hazel fix you can find us on IG or follow our Facebook page. But for now, the blog is on summer holiday.

 

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I sincerely wish you all a great summer (or winter depending on where you are reading from). I will be thinking of you and hoping you find some time to spend with your families and friends.

Meet you back here in or around September-ish. You may see a random Friday post before then. I will try, I promise.

Will miss this guys. Lots of love and warm wishes.

Talk soon

 

Hazel Continues to Impress

Have you heard of the John McGivney Children's Center? We are lucky enough to live in a community with an amazing resource to help parents with children like Hazel who just might need a little guidance to keep them on the right track. They help children with Trisomy 21, as well as other children with special needs. We are grateful for their expertise and guidance. They have proven to be a great support to us as we try to do our best to raise our daughter.

We had a visit last week from the speech pathologist. She came over to make sure Hazel is on the right track with early language development. Her goal was to offer suggestions and learning strategies for us to use to help Hazel continue to develop new skills to the best of her ability. Upon her arrival she was surprised to find such a strong and healthy looking little girl. A far cry from her days in London. The description of the baby in the file she read was not the same baby she came face-to-face with. She was very impressed with Hazel and all her accomplishments so far.

It is common for children with Down Syndrome to have difficulties with speech. One of the reasons they experience this can be due to low muscle tone in the jaw. So far, Hazel seems to be ahead of the game in this regard. Her muscle tone is very good and she has begun to babble and imitate, skills a 6-9 months old baby can do. The speech pathologist was shocked to see her progress so far.

We don't know what future challenges await Hazel, but we are proud of the milestone that she has achieved. We are never looking at the things Hazel can't do, but celebrating the things that she can!!

Here is an example of how vocal Hazel is. She is perfectly happy in this video by the way...